Lifestyle blog review
So umm…wow! I mean what do you say? I stumbled upon this entry today at: http://lifestyleblogreviewer.blogspot.com/2008/06/slave-jane-07.html
And honestly I am speechless. My life is no better than trailer park drama….But it is what I’ve got. Let’s see…
This is the blog of a young woman on the path of becoming a slave. It would be nice to say that after a long and arduous journey she has a fairy tale ending, but that would be a lie. It would be better to say that the journey is more akin to climbing Mt Everest, without the parkas or the Sherpa. While it could be said that they both try very hard, there are a couple of problems that no relationship can survive- ineptitude and issues.
Well the thing is we have survived. I may not be the happiest person in the world…But I am trying my hardest to make it work.
This grim little tale is interspersed with descriptions of how he punches kicks and beats her which seems to be their only common ground; they both enjoy that aspect of their life. Edited highlights of how he tried to fuck her sister when she stayed with them and his struggle to hold down a job and be a good master. All of this anguish is set against the backdrop of an underlying problem.
She has an issue with sex to the point she became immersed in puppy play to avoid having to have it. Now most people when faced with this problem in a partner develop a range of coping strategies; therapy, addressing the underlying issues, inflicting guilt, blackmail, begging and simply going elsewhere. Her master, realizing that this is what she was doing, developed a liking for doggy-style. Needless to say, with a heavy heart, she put away the dog bowls.
Okay, I get this part. But the thing is I have been through therapy and all that. I gave my dog bowls to my puppy. At least he could use them.
So for those who like their blogs with a good serve of trailer park initiative may we humbly suggest-
http://slavejane07.wordpress.com/
Anyways, whatever. to wach their own. This is the kinda thing that would confirm to me that I should have stopped blogging when my life fell apart. I blog to express myself, so that my husband can maybe get a better understanding of me, and so that I can seek advice from other bloggers. Maybe someone can learn from what I have been through.
This all just gives me more reason to stop this blogging. What is the point of it anyways? I’m not a slave anymore, I am not owned. So what does that leave to blog about?
~~jane
June 14, 2008 at 12:26 pm
jane,
Second off.. i wouldn’t worry about what some “Masters and subs/slaves” say on LBR, obviously they get their jollies out of hurting people.. some feel the need to belittle others to make themselves feel better *shrugs softly* to each their own i guess.. i have a feeling that the people that created LBR are the same people that left TSR to start their own web place. i’m sure you know the ones i mean.. the ones that complained about the weekend fluff bunnies and W.A.S.. the ones that said if you have children you can’t be a slave *rolls my eyes* for a lifestyle that claims to be so open and understanding, there sure are ALOT of closed minded people that like to spout off about others *shakes my head* i guess you can only be a slave/sub if you do it their way.
First off i have to say.. i enjoy reading your blog
My point being, M/s D/s, whatever one chooses to call it is all individual. Just as marriage and life is all individual. It’s trial and error.. a continous learning journey. So maybe you and Seth are at a standstill right now in regards to M/s, that doesn’t mean you will always be in that same spot. But even if things never progress to where you want them, that doesn’t make the feelings inside you any less intense, the wanting any less strong. Your blog is your outlet.. so i say blog on girl and fuck anyone that doesn’t like it.. they are not obligated to read your blog.. there’s an X in the top right corner of the page that works just fine for people like them
hugs ya tight,
kat
June 14, 2008 at 1:08 pm
NO - don’t stop blogging just because of what those assholes had to say about your blog! Who the hell are thy to judge you or anyone else for how you live your life and the struggles you face. I’ve recently started blogging again and I’ve faced criticism and judgement too - all bloggers are going to at some point or another. You are honest, real and putting it out there for the world to see to not only gain some insight into yourself, but to help other slaves (owned or not) that are facing similiar problems. Don’t let the idiots win!!! Don’t shut down your blog just because of some bad press - they aren’t almighty Gods, they are stupid judgemental morons with too much time on their hands and nothing better to do than to tear other people down. I’ve only recently discovered your blog and I for one love it! I love your honesty. I love how you don’t hold back and share the heartache you are going through. I understand and totally agree that blogging can be alot like therapy. Hang in there!! *big hug*
June 16, 2008 at 1:16 pm
The point of your blog is that you enjoy writing it. It’s an outlet for you. I don’t blog (when I manage to find time to blog) for the readers…I do it for me and Master. Don’t stop blogging because of someone’s opinion. Obviously there are plenty of us that read and enjoy reading your blog.
July 1, 2008 at 5:05 am
Fuck what they have to say. So a bunch of little hens got permission from their cock to peck at the outsiders? Who cares? This is your life and your expression without judgment. You worry about you and yours, and let them go about their hen-pecking ways.
~Doux~